Saturday, May 22, 2010

Passports, Pools and The Purge


We focused on three things today: completing the application to renew my older son’s Aussie passport, listing our house here in Vegas for rent and the beginning of The Purge.

The first issue was obviously something of a mistake surprise. I was just booking the one way tickets for my hubby and oldest, when I went to get their passport numbers. I casually open my son’s passport to read the expiry date…5 days ago. Noice! Needless to say, I went into a bit of a tizz for a moment as I’d just bought the return tickets for myself and my youngest son (he has not yet got his Australian passport, so we had to buy return). Now I have to work out how to get my oldest his new passport quick so that we can *try* to fly home to Oz on similar days. **

It’s no big news that the housing market in the US isn’t tops at the moment. So to make our move happen so spontaneously, we are renting out our house. Let me tell you, if we lived in a make-anything-happen-with-the-wiggle-of-your-nose kind of Universe, I would transplant our house here directly to the Sunshine Coast. I love everything about it - especially the pool. But since that’s not gonna happen, we are renting this beauty out whilst we rent for a while in Sydney. Now I know that our neighbourhood has a good record of getting rentals snapped up quickly (the last one went in 2 days, the one before that in 3) so I was hopeful. I popped up a brief ad on Craigslist and within 2 hours there was a lady ringing my doorbell asking if she could have a quick peek. Wow, if this family ends up taking the place…that might be a record for the street!

Ah, one of my favourite parts of a move – The Purge. I find sorting through things and getting rid of unused or neglected items cathartic. And while it true that I do this on a mini scale every few months (especially with growing boys), the kind of purge that happens when contemplating a massive international move is on different scale altogether. Goodbye to many clothes, books, toys, bits and pieces that I always *meant* to use in a craft or for a gift somehow. Auf Wiedersehen to the old artificial Christmas tree, the dusty treadmill, the Nerf tee ball set (hey, we’re going to Oz, the boys will be learning cricket!). Adios to the small appliances that are easy & cheap to replace – the toaster, the kettle, the boys’ CD players. The most difficult purge of all for me? Shoes.

And damn if I don’t realise that it makes me sound like a character from SATC, but I only became particularly enamoured of shoes and handbags when pregnant the first time. So these sexy or cute or stylish or impractical bits of leather and cork and rubber really do mean something to me.

But The Purge calls for a no-holds-barred pragmatic approach, so if they strangle my pinkie toe, they’re out. If they no longer match a single outfit, they’re tossed onto the heap. Possibly the best part of this process is knowing that when I get rid of really well-cared for items, they’re going somewhere that people in need can make better use of them than I do.

Day 3 down…only 25 left to go

**Note: This idea of flying with our two boys separately is actually a bit genius. Each boy will get the undivided attention of the one parent, allowing us to play games, cater to their own whim and avoid the inevitable arguments that siblings have when they get tired, hungry or notice any apparent infraction by the other.

Friday, May 21, 2010

I'm Excited about.....



This isn't my first international move. I lived in Rome and London.

When I lived in London the guys I dated were American. Why? I worked in the US Law Group of a very large firm. Dating other employees is way more acceptable in the UK than it is in the US. I have found it to be very taboo here. I was married to an American whom...I met at work in Sydney!

I dream about being home, sand beneath my feet, glass of Margaret River Chardonnay in my hand and my dogs beside me. BUT ALSO......... Australian men. I'm an Australian girl who has not dated anyone Australian in a very very very long time.

I'm so excited to explore my own Country. I have been to Moscow, but have never been to Melbourne. Yeah, I know!! I have a list of places I want to visit: Uluru, Melbourne, Port Douglas, Tasmania...

I can hardly wait to be a tourist in my own country!

When the overwhelming feelings of moving engulf me, these are the things I think about. The exciting journey that awaits.

I'm Going Home


I need proof I existed for the past 10 years. My ‘proof’ are my photo’s. My books. These are all the things that fill the twenty plus boxes I stare at. I came to the US a married woman. I divorced about 7 years ago. I have been through so much here. Its been like a ten year Shamanic test. Divorce, cancer, a night in jail because of paperwork, a dynamic high profile and toxic career. I have turned myself inside out, become a yoga teacher, studied the Enneagram and found a passion for knitting. Life in the US has not been dull. It has been a pivotal time in my life. But throughout all I have been through, one thing has not changed, my yearning for my country.

Australia.

And so I am returning home.

I’m scared. I am excited. The trip is a little daunting because I am bringing my two furry best friends home with me. They are going to be in the cargo hold of the plane and I wish to god I could curl up beside them.

I stare at all my ‘stuff’ and wonder if I should just leave it here. Be Zen and ‘travel lightly’. All those books that will sit on a shelf when I do get home. But when I look at those books, I remember where I was when I bought them, the strength I found to get through all that I have experienced. The inspiration and comfort they brought to me when I had none. My dogs, knitting and books have been my family, comfort, refuge and they are all coming home with me.

She'll be right...


Anj says:

An overseas move is no small endeavour, whether you're moving to a country you've never been to before or back to the country of your birth.

And it's not only about the logistics. Although, let's face it, those can be especially challenging. But the mental prep that you must go through - the to-ing-and-fro-ing that might occur are all just part of the exciting experience.

This is my 7th overseas move. And for the first time, I am moving with 2 children. But do you know what I find most daunting this time round? The fast pace...

We are moving in less than 4 weeks - and we only made the decision this week.

So here we go - we're on our adventure...and I'm taking YOU along for the ride. Get an inside look at the chaos that will be our home in Las Vegas, then come with us to Australia and learn about the ups & down with making a huge move in a short time!

Thursday, May 20, 2010

Anj is still blogging...

But you might have an easier time finding my individual work here:

http://www.anjwritesabout.com

http://www.conceivery.com

and another soon to launch...

In the meantime, Julia and I hope you enjoy our adventures in moving overseas...again! ;)

We're both on Twitter as @anjwrites and @aussieyogachic